Stories about Bob
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​From:
Mariah Ehlert
One of my favorite memories, from when I was little, was Pops taking my friends and I to the St Paul Winter Carnival. Looking back I am amazed at his perseverance in the face of a car full of goofy girls! It was such a treat to head into the city, go ice skating, playing in the ice sculptures, and of course lots of hot chocolate and sweets (don't tell mom!). He loved taking us on these adventures as much as my friends and I did. Miss you Pops.
A young me trying to understand baseball leagues: "Pops? Would the Twins ever play the Cardinals [his favorite team]?" Pops, "HAHA, no never!"
From:
Carol Clark
Bob was someone I once loved enough to marry. We did remain friends. One of the first 'rules' he enforced, was that everybody get at least one hug a day. He loved his family, music, movies and entertaining. He lived for planning gardens and home projects. Sad to have him depart, and in such a way that no loved ones were present. So sorry that this very difficult loss is compounded by the mystery surrounding it.
​From:
Loralee Clark
When he learned I was to be an observer aboard Soviet trawlers, he gave me tapes of Russian composers to take with me to play on my "boom box". This enabled mini concerts in my cabin, attended by emotional new Russian friends. (Neither Bob nor I anticipated the younger guys who wanted American rock music.) Bob was very supportive too,when I struggled with the terror of my first year of law school. A good man to his little sister in law.
From:
Linda ClarkBaker
Remembering the delight with which Bob shared his music collection and his very clever storage system. He was a cool and gracious man.
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Beth Leleck
I had the pleasure of first meeting Bob at a flyball tournament with Mariah. He was so friendly, and also very intent on learning all about how the game was played - he even sat in as an assistant judge for much of the weekend! I wasn't sure he'd even remember who I was after that weekend, but it touched my heart when Mariah found a picture of us on that weekend that he'd kept at his home in Panama. Yet another adventure on his list of many, learning to play flyball with his daughter and her goofy dog friends in Colorado one summer. :)
From:
Donna Tatting
Bob's favorite activity with our Master Gardener group was staffing our location at the Almelund Threshing Show in Almelund, MN. He'd bring his favorite reference materials with him prepared to answer any and all questions that came his way. His unique ability to name and explain any insect or plant by all of it's scientific associations, was a wonder to behold. We would kid Bob and he always took it with grace and humor. To honor and remember Bob, this summer we will plant a tree next to our Almelund Master Gardener home on the Threshing Grounds. We miss you Bob and are grateful we got the chance to share some of life's journey with you.
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Mary Kay Thomas
Mariah and my daughter were friends in grade school and so that is when I first met Bob. It was always special to go to their house at Christmas time and listen to good music on Bob's special system. There was always a project happening with remodeling the house or the gardens, planting or tearing down.... but Bob always made time for his friends. Summers, Bob would stop at our house after church and if we were planting the garden, he would offer suggestions. It always ended with coffee and plans for dinner later. Bob would bring the wine from his cellar. There is a catalpa tree in our yard that Bob gave us as a small plant in a pot the year after we had 2 trees uprooted. This is the 3rd year since it was planted and it is slow to come to life each spring but it does and each year it has grown a bit taller and with more leaves. Watching it and caring for it is a special reminder of a special friend who will always be in our hearts.
From:
Colleen LeBlanc
Memories Made with Bob Each time I walk on the north side of our house, I see the dogwood bushes Bob recommended we plant there. I think of him. I believe the first time Bob and I met was on a very, very very, cold, crisp winter's day in Cambridge, MN about 35 years ago. He was part of the Rum River Runner's group volunteering to time cross country skiers. My husband was doing the same, and I was there as the school district's Community Education Director also timing skiers. Through the running club we started a friendship and Bob would join our family for New Year's Eve and all of our party events as well as dinner gatherings. Our friendship consisted of many hours of discussion on a diversity of subjects. He is one of the only people I have known with whom I could have a healthy political discussion! We visited Bob's beautiful "arboretum" often, heard stories of his master gardener adventures, sailing and traveling experiences. We poured over his traveling maps, and talked many hours about his boat, t-shirt design and how he managed getting parts only available in the USA for a boat sitting in Panama. We experienced the expansion of and renovation of his home and the building of the condo in Panama. He shared his dream to make his beautiful Cambridge place into a safe place for abused women. He was appalled at how women are sometimes treated. We talked reading, and he showed me how he made notes in his daily reminder calendar book on everything he read. We ate and drank wine often with him. I quizzed him on his love life and he ended up volunteering interesting information. We exchanged photos. He encouraged me when I had my transplant. He encouraged me with my bicycling endeavors. We had plans to spend time with him in Panama in November. We had plans to meet him in New Zealand once he got that far on his trip in his boat around the world. He kept track of what our children were doing and when the grandchildren arrived, he followed them also. His yearly Christmas cards, the overnights (he only needed about four hours of sleep a night), frequent e-mails and phone conversations were always fun. I have many of his cards with notes, and photos of our meetings. He shared his books with us, and his wonderful music collection. He had it all catalogued. He helped us select landscaping plants and served as our own personal garden consultant. We often enjoyed cooking with him. He had his life goals posted right on the wall to the left of his stove. He shared his wine cellar, rose garden, guest rooms, attic collections. Best of all he shared his incredible mind, his laughter and smiles and his caring friendship. We loved him dearly and hold him forever in our hearts.
​From:
Mark Surks
Bob was my boss at ADT in the late 70s. He drove me to Sheepshead Bay one time for a fishing trip with some colleagues. We rode in his tiny Yellow Opel. Half hour on the water i was sick as a dog. At 3am we got back and bob stuffed me back in the Opel and took me home. Bob was a sharp guy. I was saddened to hear of his disappearance in 2013.
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​From:
Sue Ehlert
My favorite memories of Uncle Bob.
I first met Uncle Bob when I was dating Greg. Bob was always very friendly, kind and full of surprises! I have many happy memories of Bob. These are my favorite.
Bob offered to videotape our wedding and we took him up on his offer. Sometime during the ceremony his arm got tired from holding up that state of the art, 1984, VHS Camcorder on his shoulder. We found out the next day that he got a great shot of the priest’s shoes. He wanted to edit it out, but I couldn’t let him. It was really fun to watch!
Bob knew he was always welcome at my house. One very early Christmas Eve, he called and said he was on his way over (from Minnesota to Michigan). He and Inky (his dog) arrived just before dinner. It was so nice to have them with us. We had kids and dogs everywhere! My last visit with Uncle Bob was one Sunday morning, he called and said he wanted to stop by to see me before he drove back to Minnesota. He came by with a dozen donuts for the 2 of us! We drank coffee, ate a few donuts and he showed me photos from Panama. We talked about life and laughed.
I have wonderful memories and am lucky to have had him in my life. I still think about him often.
From:
Jennifer Ehlert
I'm finding it difficult to write this. Not because of sadness or anger, but because I'm struggling with trying to concretize all the memories and emotions that flow through me as I try to capture or define Uncle Bob. I simply can't. Bob Ehlert was fascinating to me. His energy, his charm, his intelligence, and the scope of his never ending "to do" lists seem almost superhuman to me! How could one person do so much and so well? I remember him urging me to "Seize the Day;" to live the motto "Carpe Diem." Bob, perhaps more than anyone I know, lived by this affirmation. And, for me, that is what gave his life so much gusto. He was active, out reaching, searching, and was both a dreamer and a doer. I admire that and wish I had just an ounce or two of his mojo. My favorite memory is from Katy (Ehlert) Escott's wedding (Bob's grand niece). I will always remember Bob urging Madeline (his brother's wife and my precious Mother-in-Law) on to the dance floor. I loved watching them dance. It is the only time I remember Madeline dancing. It captures Bob's kindness, love for family, love for celebrating, and his desire for all of us to be in the moment, to be part of the joy, and to seize the day! I love you Uncle Bob. I will never forget the brandy and bubble bath at your home in Minnesota. Jennifer
From:
Patty Beaver
I’ll remember Bob Ehlert for his passionate quest to get the most out of life. He was always motivated by goals and dreams, of which he had many. The one that seemed to transcend all others was his burning desire to sail around the world. I think this is because Bob always had a keen affection for the human spirit, looking for the good in people and wanting to get to know their stories. He didn’t criticize or complain, but was more than willing to provide an opinion with suggestions about how he would handle challenges. This could have been overwhelming, but it was always framed in love and his desire to create harmony and deep family ties. Bob has been a part of my life for over 50 years through his brother’s marriage to my sister. No matter where he lived, Bob was there for all the significant events in my life. He celebrated my high school and college graduations, my marriage, the births of my children and important milestones in their lives, along with special holiday and family celebrations for decades. My fondest memories are of Bob helping me buy my first Canon camera at a crazy discount outlet in New York City and introducing me to bigger than life Broadway productions. Photography and live theatre continue to be two of my biggest passions so I am deeply grateful to Bob for helping me push personal boundaries to expand my world. It’s difficult to say goodbye to someone as good hearted as Bob. His thoughtfulness, kindness, and generous heart made the world a nicer place. Even though his voice is now quiet, his spirit will continue to live in my heart forever.
From:
Madeline Ehlert
I first met Bob when I married his brother, Dick, in 1961. For the next 20 years while we all lived in the East, he was always part of our holidays and vacations. Our boys, Greg, Brad, and Doug, grew up with Uncle Bob as a constant part of the family. In the early 80s he moved to Minneapolis, bought a farm, married, adopted Mariah, and life changed. While we were always in touch and talked frequently, our visits were usually once or twice a year. Most years we spent a vacation with Marg and Max [Bob's parents]; Marg loved having her boys together. Bob was so family oriented and involved that I knew beyond a doubt that he would never have willingly left the family. I was in New York City last week and remembered all the visits with Bob while he lived in the City and in nearby New Jersey. Highlights for me were the many shows we saw - and if Bob got the tickets, we sat in or near the front row. The best was My Fair Lady with Ian Richardson. He was beyond sexy. The worst was Jesus Christ Superstar where the front row was too close. All the trips were memorable. I imagine the boys remember July 4, 1976, with the Tall Ships and fireworks celebration. Doug was almost crushed getting back to Bob's apartment on the subway. On one visit Bob took us up to his office on the 78th floor of the World Trade Center. Those were his Master of the Universe years. When he bought the house in Glen Rock and started painting and renovating it, I think his New Year's resolutions (which he did religiously) took a turn and led to his 40s and his farm and family. After he retired at about 55, I think his goals changed again to his plans to sail around the world - his boat and his condo in Panama. In my last conversation with him in late April 2013, he was planning to start the first leg of the journey within a month. I regret losing Bob from our family - but maybe more I am sorry he was never able to start his journey to sail around the world.
From:
Matt Alling
Bob and I were roommates in Vietnam in the Army. We were stationed in Pleiku and worked in the Finance office there. It was really pretty good duty. We were fortunate. Anyway, there were 4 of us that were leaving Vietnam and the service about the same time, so Bob decides we should go on a 'vacation' after we get out of the Army. So off we go to Europe for 2 months in a rented VW camper van! Great trip that I'll always remember. We kept in contact every year at Christmas. Always talked about returning to Pleiku. Blessings to you Mariah and your family.
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Shelly Sprinkle
I have so many fond memories of Bob. He would take me with to sporting events, the winter carnival, even Duluth (my first time). He helped me see parts of the world, I may not have seen otherwise, when I was a teenager. Bob was my neighbor for many years. I grew up and moved away, but Bob continued to live near my parents. If he happened to be home for any holiday, he would often spend it with my family. He was part of or family. He was at my conformation, graduation and my wedding. I am especially thinking of him this time of year. My family and I would go camping at the Almelund Threshing Show every year. Bob would be there Saturday, in the Master Gardner building. When he was done, he would come and hang out with us. I am so glad I met Bob. He is just an amazing individual.
From:
Tim Anderson
I sailed with Bob for 2 weeks in Belize - I loved his sense of adventure and zest for life. He was someone I trusted and enjoyed being around. He is missed.
From:
Bill Warwick
The early years
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I joined ALCOA in Pittsburgh as it's Chief Auditor in 1969 and Bob joined the team shortly thereafter. We had a terrific time together working in places we'd never heard of as we visited plants and mines throughout the America's. Bob was such a fast study that we soon used him on special projects including overseeing a real estate development in Florida. One of my favorite memories was taking him fishing one Sunday out of Sheepshead Bay. We boarded the boat with coffees and he had a NY Times that be began to read on the way out. Soon he gravitated to the crossword puzzle and completed it in about 10 minutes. Never ever saw that kind of command over obscure information before or since. It was amazing to have that puzzle solved before my coffee was even finished. I remember that often when I'm stumped and more spaces are empty than filled. We had a good day fishing and kept in touch until he went to ADT. I sadly found this site when I went looking to find him again. He had a great smile, awful plaid shirts and a terrific apartment on the Florida Gold Coast. Hope this electronic hug finds its way home. Best.